5 Easy Ways to Find Your People
I gave a speech last week at a conference for aspiring authors; a room full of some of the most dynamic, passionate and creative introverts a person could ever meet, all in one place at the same time. (I had found my people!) I talked about the importance of getting out from behind your computer, and into social circles to connect with the like-minded and like-hearted.
I was speaking with excitement as I recalled with gratitude the inspiration, validation, support and valuable education I’ve received by stepping out into my community, and immersing myself in the energy of my people, when one small voice from the middle of the room asked out loud, “How do you find your people?”
Let there be no more excuse-not a one. Below are 5 EASY ways to find your people.
1. Be of service. Who do you love? What are you passionate about? Or, as my writing coach asked me once, “What are you aching to contribute?” If you’re a sports fanatic, why not donate your time and talent to the Special Olympics? If you love children and books, consider leading a “story time” at your local children’s hospital or library. Also, organized service groups such as the International Rotary Club or Kiwanis International have local chapters, and usually let you visit a time or two for free before you decide to join. Check your local newspaper and online community calendar for local events you could potentially get involved in, and SHOW UP! Let them know who you are, what you’re all about, and talk about your book project. If you’re already immersed locally and are looking make national or even global contacts, consider organizations such as the Evolutionary Business Council (ECB), or CEO Space. Building relationships with people who share your passion will light up your life, and open doors you never knew existed. Bottom line, honor your inspiration and move forward with inspired action.
2. Collaborate! Confident business leaders know that alone they shine, and that together, they light up the world and make all things possible. (They *know* this with absolute certainty.) You don’t have to get involved a big JV opportunity right away (or ever!), but even little things such as newsletter cross promotion and participation in tele-summits will help shed light on you and your mission, ultimately supporting business growth and development while finding a few of “your people” in the process.
3. Join a Writers Group. Don’t be shy! Even Jack Canfield, Marianne Williamson, and Dr. Seuss were newbie’s once, so leave your inner critic at home (or on the side of the road someplace) and join the club! Clearly, you all come to the table with one thing in common-your talent. For as long as human beings have been around, we’ve gravitated to other human beings who we’ve felt understood the essence of who we are. The feedback, conversation inspiration and camaraderie are invaluable, and to surround yourself with others who share your passion is a gift unto yourself, and also to those you aspire to touch with your words. (Not to mention, what a great group of folks to cross promote with, right?)
4. Become a Union Member! I could (and should) write an entire article on the benefits of becoming a member of the National Writers Union (NWU), although for now, I’ll just give you skinny as it pertains. The National Writers Union UAW Local 1981 is the only labor union that represents freelance writers. Within the organization are local chapters, and within those local chapters are some of the most experienced, knowledgeable, passionate, dedicated and profound writers you’ll ever come to meet, know and love. These are “your people” to the power of 4. Here, your people are not only waiting for you, they’re ready to support your endeavors, and celebrate you, your message, your rights and your work. If you’re not a union member already, do consider becoming one.
5. (And last but not least) Have FUN! You know all those “Events” that pass through your Facebook Homepage page? Those are invitations…and yes, you’re invited! By all means, go if you feel ever so slightly inclined; it’s not always easy to show up at a new place with new faces, but it’s EXCITING, and refreshing so get dressed, grab a friend and get on out there. Concerts, fundraisers, clothing swaps, books signings — it’s a never-ending sea of proof that you are not forgotten, along with substantiating evidence that proves that your people are out there, and that they’re looking for you, too.